Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Music That Enhances Sex

When it comes to sex, you need to make sure you set the scene for the session. And what better way to do so than by using music to enhance the sexual experience?

The kind of music you opt for is entirely up to you, but most guys (and women) will agree that death metal is out of the question. So, depending on the kind of sex you'd like to have, choose your music accordingly.

But rather than opt for an album by a single artist, I recommend opting for compilation albums -- i.e. soundtracks and what have you. For now, here are some suggestions you might want to keep in mind the next time you happen into a music store.

R&B
The great thing about R&B music is that it usually comes with lyrics, so if there's something you want to tell her without actually saying it, you can say it with song. And if not, then let the men and women of this genre help you seduce her.

My suggestions:
Tha Down Low
Let's Get It OnElectronica
If you like to chill out and go through various speeds and tempos while doing the deed, then this music will serve to give you and your girl exactly what you're looking for. This music, along with a good bottle of wine, can turn your session into something hypnotic.

My suggestions:
Cafe Del Mar Volumen OnceParis Under A Groove - Stylistique Vol. 1

Dance
Considering you're doing your own horizontal dance, listening to some soft, original dance music will serve to make her sway her hips more so on your penis. Personally, I think this is the best kind of music to have sex to.

My suggestions:
Beautiful Tomorrow - Blue Six
Nude Tempo 1 - Muguel Migs
Penetrate Deeper (Reis) - Deep Dish
Addictive Beats - Saeed & Palash

Ethnic
If you're the type of guy (or couple, rather) who enjoys trying out new things every so often, why not put on some bellydancing beats or soft Greek rhythms and let her show you what she's made of? If the music makes her feel sexy, she will proceed to show you exactly how sexy. Not to mention, penetration will definitely feel a little spicier.

You can always start out the foreplay by dancing together and then you can, oops!, accidentally end up inside her.

My suggestions:
Immortal Egypt - Phil Thornton, Hossam Ramzy
Buddha Bar VI

Jazz
If you're in the mood to take things slowly up the foreplay department and move into penetration with ease, then jazz is the kind of music you might want to try out.

My suggestion:
Better Sex Video Series: Indulgence - Sensual RhythmsVerve RemixedBossa Nova
If there's one kind of music that can get any woman in the mood, it's bossa nova. The Brazilian voices and eclectic music will leave any woman feeling happy and perhaps horny, and she'll be enjoying her orgasm in no time. As will you.

My suggestions:
Bossa Nova For LoversGetz/Gilberto - Joao Gilberto, Stan Getz, Antonio Carlos Jobim

play that funky music

And there you have it; enough music to keep you sexually satisfied for at least a couple of months.

Remember that although music can enhance sex and all its surrounding activities, you should try to adapt the beat to whatever you're doing with your girl. What I like to do is turn the volume up to make a woman comfortable enough to moan a little louder.

Add some lighting and take your time, and before you know it, your woman will start turning on the stereo to give you the hint.

Until next time, let the beat take over.

By David Strovny Sex Education Correspondent

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